Epiphany

  One thing I'm sure... I don't want a relationship. Because of what I said in my Nighty Night Thoughts and in Same Typical Story, now I'm sure I have to be alone. I can't take the risk of falling in love, or let someone fall in love for me and hurt him. I still need to understand if I really got over with my past.


  The thing is: I dated with a guy (lets call him Reinaldo, it's a funny name) for almost 3 years. It was good while it last, but in the last couple of months, our relationship changed, he changed, I changed. Our love wasn't strong enough to get over the constant fights, he tried and gave up. The lies began... When he gave up, I tried. The anger began... And it was too late. We weren't the same persons anymore.


  Bottom line: I'm sure I don't like him. He's a whole new person now, and that person no longer has any interest to me. But, I'm not sure if I got over with the relation we had. Sometimes your mind messes with your heart and they play tricks on you. I need to know that I'm not fooling myself before being with someone else.


  So, after this all logic deduction, why am I not happy with my decision?


J.

Sair de casa com este frio? Medoooo

  Com este frio como é possível estar na moda?
  Reclamação: As tendências Outono/Inverno não estão nada bem concebidas!
  Muitas das saias só ficam bem com collans de vidro transparentes, mesmo com meias altas, estas não aquecem grande coisa. Há sempre a solução das botas de cano extremamente alto, mas essas também não aquecem, só tapam!
  As partes de cima mais giras para usar com calças/saias de cintura subida são super frescas! Ai ai... que pecado!
  Vou agora sair de casa para fazer um novo haircut, e parece que vou para o pólo Norte em vez do cabeleireiro.
  Se não postar mais hoje é porque estou a descongelar.


J.

J. Wish List #2

Quero qualquer uma... Quero todas! :D

J.

Same Typical Story...

  Hi there! I've just finished my current reading "The Stanislaski brothers- Mikhail" by Nora Roberts. The thing I love about this writer is that her books always end in marriage and kids. It's like a fairytale but in real life, it make us belive it is possible... Is it?
  For me, this is the best kind of book to read while you're overloaded with work, because it leads you to enter in its world, you'll forget everything and you'll just focus on those characters.
  Moving along... I've decided to make this post because in the end of this book 4 important questions were made... These questions make me wondering about some decisions I've made along this last year. The questions are meant for you to see if you really love a person.

"Does he make you happy? Do you trust him? How do you imagine your life with him? And most important, how do you imagine it without him?"

  These questions are the real decision that a person has to make. These are the questions whose answers make you understand if you should really be with that guy/girl.

  My answers are:

1. Sometimes, yes. Most of the times, no.

2. I did, until...

3. Yes, so clearly it still hurts.

4. No, he never got completely out of my life so I could get used to his distance.

And it all resumes to this image... to this end.

Will it ever change?

I hope Nora Roberts is right, we all deserve a fairytale ending.

J.

Música #1

Pink Floyd - "Wish you were here"

  This is one of my favourites... Enjoy!

J.

Belos tempos os que nos esperam!

  Bem... Parece que a C. me vai deixar encarregue do My Dear Heart pelos próximos 4 dias! O que estão a achar do nosso cantinho, bloggers? Eu e a C. andamos muito entusiasmadas pois já queriamos fazer isto à algum tempo. :)

Portanto...

Planos para os próximos 3 dias:

Sexta: Acordar às 6h30 para ligar à C. para nos despedirmos;

 Dormir (porque esta noite vai haver

 party!);

 Acordar definitivamente;

 Tomar um longo banho e tomar o

 pequeno almoço;

 Pensar no dito cujo (chamemos-lhe

 Acácio Sousa) ahah;

 ESTUDAR!

Sábado: Pensar no A.S.;

 ESTUDAR;

 Jantar com uma antiga amiga;

 Partyyy...

Domingo: Pensar no A.S.;

 ESTUDAR!!!

  Pois é Dear Bloggers, os exames estão a chegar e as férias de Natal são "falsas" férias, chamemos-lhes antes "época de estudo"! 1º exame: 3 de Janeiro... Digam lá que nao começo 2011 em grande?! Já estou aterrorizada só de pensar no que me espera. Wish me luck!

J.

Nighty Night Thoughts #2

  How do you know if a guy is "into you" or not? It's a funny thing... nowdays you can kiss a guy and it's just a "thing", a flirt... or, you can kiss a guy and it's a relationship.
  I prefer the oldfashion requests: "Would you be my girlfriend?" At least you can be sure you're in a relation! But nooooo... that's childish, with our age you start hanging out and if you like it you can call it a relationship, if not, it's just a "thing"... that's a way for people to avoid consequences, talks, relations and thinking about it!
  Why can't guys take us on several dates?... And, it should exist a rule about 'kissing, just on the 3rd date' so he could really get to know us before putting his tongue into our mouth. Sorry if I'm being rude, but I hate missunderstandings and I'm little confused. Before, I could see clearly if a guy just wanted a little fun or if he wanted a real girlfriend, but now... I'm blind, I can't tell the difference anymore. LOL It's true when people say that with age you'll get less certanties and more doubts.
  So, how can we tell the difference? How do we know if he's the real deal?


J.

Viagens #1

E parece que este fim-de-semana me vou ausentar!

  Pois é, vou ali ao lado, como quem diz a Madrid. Neste momento impõe-se o drama da mala, vou testar a minha capacidade de minimizar, vamos ver como corre.

C.

J. Whish List #1

Tudo Zara meninas :)

I want it!

J.

Cinema #2

Pride and Prejudice

  Filme deveras espectacular! Atenção, filme baseado do livro de Jane Austen, igualmente espectacular. Aconselho ambos!

  Apesar de retratar uma vida do séc.XIX, é uma história que se mantém perfeitamente actual. É engraçado ver como "evoluímos" e como o orgulho e o preconceito ainda são uma parte integrante da nossa sociedade.

  Um óptimo romance e uma óptima critica à antiga e presente sociedade . Espero que gostem.

J.

Tea Time

Não te esqueças, temos planos para as nossas tardes, estão marcados para daqui a 30 anos, não te atrases!


C.

Nighty Night Thoughts #1

  Do you know when you start liking someone?! Do you know that time when you can't get enough of that person? The long, long talks in the internet? The first phonecalls? That first kiss? That dizziness that comes with it? And, of course, the butterflys in your belly?!
  Yes, I know the feeling... but after a little while you start to doubt yourself... you start thinking if "that" is the right thing to say or do... "What will he think about this?!" Should I do this?" Bottom line is: "Will he like me for Me?"
  That's why you need to know to be on you own, to love yourself before someone does, to trust yourself. When you know you don't need anyone to make you happy except yourself, than you can be with anyone that they will like you for You!


J.

Cinema #1

Gru - O Mal disposto - " É tão fofooooo"

C.

Sweets #1

Huuuum, cupcakes!

Ontem foi dia de provar Bake my Day.

C. e J. ♥

When I see someone beautiful I tend to stare... Sorry

  Here it is... our first post :) Just to try this blog thing!


  Because Dancing is fun and people forget how important it is to let go of your inibitions and just dance!


J.  ♥